The only way to know who you are is to enquire within. The only way to change your behavior is to understand yourself. The only way to understand yourself is to to self-enquire. Why do I use the word “enquire” as opposed to “inquire?” Denver Frederik is suggesting the best…


Grief, defined by Merriam Webster, is described as


Masculine and Feminine

Krshna and Radha the representation of the masculine and feminine of “GOD.”

Rama and Sita, said to be early devotees of spiritual principles that transcend survival.

Abraham and Sarai bore a son late in life, Sarai was said to be “Mother of Nations.”

Buddha and Yashodhara, rather…


In relationships, your intention is not what matters in doing and not doing something. If you or someone you are in a relationship with continues to do something you or the other person perceives as hurtful, then you are in a toxic relationship.

An intention can not be seen or…


Zoom Pro is a HIPAA compliant tool to use for teletherapy. It is a great tool costing $2000 per year, it allows you to present information using various document clouds, including #googledrive and it will design your face to look healthy if you need that.

It is important to get…


As a person in the profession of counseling, I can tell you that I came to it from my brokenness.

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As I have grown through the years, I have sorted the helpful from the unhelpful advice people have freely, and for profit, given to me.

I have come from a…


If you are in a relationships now and you are experiencing abuse of any kind, think twice about the relationship.

There is a phenomenon that is called the Dark Triad.

Narcissism: selfishness, involving a sense of entitlement, a lack of empathy, and a need for admiration

Psychopathy: a personality disorder…


Resilience is critical now. We who are awake and aware of what is happing in our nation are traumatized every day. Any trauma we experienced before today adds to the trauma of today. It is cumulative. And it does not seem to be slowing down.

Remember, whatever your are experiencing…


Picture taken of Grandson in his Mask

A few years ago, my family went to a mask workshop. We got to meet a mask maker and see a show where he used all of his masks in a drama.

When I think back on this family time, I remember all of the masks I wore in my…


I have a magic eight ball

it tells me how to act.

I ask it what I need to do

when I am getting sacked.

“Concentrate and ask again”

it tells me matter-of-fact.

I concentrate so well to see

in hopes it’s not abstract.

I shake the ball now gleefully

Marie Louise Bosin, MA, LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, AAMFT Supervisor, writer, artist, musician, spiritual muse.

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